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WHY MARRIAGES AND FAMILIES ARE BREAKING

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Why families and marriages are breaking 1. As a society, we are focusing too much on weddings than on marriage. Don’t be big on ceremonies but short on substance. 2. As a society, we love to gossip and talk more about the drama of messed up marriages and celebrate little of the marriages that are thriving. When we pay more attention to negativity, negativity becomes the norm. 3. A lot of us grew up in broken homes and so we don’t know how to build a home. We were incubated in an environment of drunkenness, fear, abandonment, fights and abuse. Unlearn this. 4. A lot of us go through a messy dating scene before marriage, entering into marriage with pain. Heal from your past. 5. The boy-child who was neglected or taught that a man’s worth is the money he makes, grows up to marry a girl-child who in addition to making her own money, has emotional, professional and mental power leading to a clash of genders especially when the man feels insecure and the woman becomes argumen...