The famous "YOU USED ME"

YOU USED ME


Is a very common line after a break up or a realization that the relation has no ship, wheels or wings.

You meet a lady, you start chatting, you get closer, you go out for coffee, invite her for a movie, one thing leads to another and two adults fuck.

You never asked to be in a relationship. You never promised one. You never promised marriage. But now she claims you used her? How?

Some men fish a slay queen from FB. Go buy her coffee or beer. Start sending her pizza money or airtime. Then you aim your arrow for her cookie.

You miss and she tells you it's because she is not ready or not into you or she thought you guys were just friends or saw you as a big brother.

Dejected, you start bad mouthing her, calling her  a whore and saying she used you. Ladies and gents, we are living in different, difficult and shallow times.

When you meet a prospective lady or gent, make your intentions clearly known before you start investing your time, bundles, resources and emotions in them.

There is no for saying 'you used me' when you were there shooting in a dark sky hoping to pierce some star. If you miss, just go in peace.

If you are already spending on some one materially or emotionally and you have not made your intentions clear, do it today...okay ...this weekend.

Have a fruitful weekend.

Comments

  1. Michaelmakongoko@gmail.comMay 3, 2019 at 8:40 PM

    I love the blog.. This is very true coz pia I have been in the same situation.

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  2. DenweksMay 3, 2019 at 10:07 PM

    This came due to personal experience

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