FOUR COMMON WAYS WOMEN SCARE OFF MEN IN THEIR LIVES

1) WALKING OUT ON HIM WHILE HE'S STILL TALKING

This is a big insult as long as the man is concerned. Some ladies do this in the name of anger but it is the best way to solve the problem. Maybe the things he's saying might be irritating you but believe me, it's hard but walking out on him in that heat is a major mistake

this is the same as snapping the call on him. Ending the call in his ears. Wow. Some Women got guts! We'll be aware that a man you constantly treat this way will gradually begin to fade his love for you and soon enough HE WILL NOTHING YOU!

A man believes more the things you tell him when you're angry than the lofty promises you make him when you're happy

2) CONSTANTLY INTERRUPTING HIM WHEN HE'S ANGRY!

Even the normal etiquette and civility demands that you let the other person finish before you speak your mind. It's important on a double doze note during an argument in marriage or relationship.

When a man is constantly interrupted, he simply concludes that this woman doesn't respect him

And subconsciously or consciously be begins to avoid you

3) SHUTTING WORDS BACK INTO HIS MOUTH

He's trying to say something that's boiling him up and you're like "no no no no!!! Hold it there! Don't talk to me like that...!?

4) EXAGGERATIONS

There's a difference between "you treated me like I didn't matter" and "you ALWAYS DO THIS. treating me like I don't matter"!

attack the situation and don't exaggerate it.

Watch your English sometimes!

"You acted like you don't care" is different from " you always act like you don't care

You didn't do anything around the house today" is different from " you NEVER do anything around this house!"

" I don't like the way you talked to me, as if am some slave" is different from " I don't like the way you TALK to me (always. Present continuous). As if am your slave!

That tells him that he never talks to you the right way

BESIDES THE BEST WAY TO CORRECT A MAN IS NOT DURING AN ARGUMENT

If he looses control of his temper and uses some unkind words, wait till you both are calm before letting him know how he must address you next time . But forcing yourself to be understood right in the heat of the argument will only make matters worse*


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